An Essence of Suffering
The second stage is the experience itself, the real deal, the culmination of all preparation and planning however short they were!
The third stage is the memories which the event has sowed in our minds. We look back and laugh or simply muse, replaying pieces of the event in our minds, perhaps unintentionally changing certain details so as to mature the experience into an idyllic memory. I often do this with my bike adventures. There are times in many of my trips where I alone, or my friends and I certainly were ‘suffering’ up a seemingly endless hill, or seriously contemplating how many revolutions our legs had left, or hoping for our tires to hold out just a few more miles. However these details get shaded in the memory process of the experience, for the better I think.
At certain times, maybe inevitably, there is a fourth stage to an experience. This is the stage of longing and wishing. It could simply be human nature to long for familiar places and comfortable environments, but however futile this aspect of our nature is; we cannot deny its power. If only we could be back in the experience feeling the same pains, pleasures, speaking the forgotten words of that day. Re-living the joy. But as we all know, this is impossible. In short, this is an essence of our suffering.
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